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Why We Should Accept People for Who They Are!
Thursday, May 13, 2010
People are who they are and we are not going to change them. We tend to be driven by things we believe and think we know. Our way may be great for us; in most cases their way is working just as well for them. When we do not accept people for who they are; we are rejecting the person. Sometimes if we listen to others we find out that their way is actually better!People have faults and we can choose to live with them or not. Friendship is very similar in marriage. A great friendship is life long, and we accept each other unconditionally. We should never try to mold other people in our image. Other than family we choose the people we want to be around. It is important for all of us to accept a person for who they are and not want we think they should be.
This does not apply to destructive behavior. If someone is in trouble, we should try to help them in any way we can. We need to remember, that not everyone wants our help! It can be hard, but it is important to learn when to move away and let people have their space.
Life is quite a challenge from the time we are born to the time we die. We have all taken different roads to get to where we are. The variety of our past experiences is what forms us into who we are! We should accept, embrace and respect people as they are. Our differences are what make us unique and interesting people. We need to accept our own strengths and our weaknesses. Acceptance is a very important part of life. If we let it, it can lead us on our path to inner peace.
We must pick our battles carefully and not try to change things we have no business changing. We need to accept people for who they are and not who we think they should be. Each of us has a place and a way of being. If we do not enjoy the people around us, we should not play God and try to change them. We should move on to someone who is compatible and shares a mutual respect with us. We need to spend our time enjoying the people around us, instead of trying to fix that which is not broken.
"If we like someone we accept them into our lives. However we do not have to accept bad behavior. We can maintain a relationship with someone without needing to accept their behavior."